This step is discretionary but will dramatically increase your chances of having members look at your profile. Write a few sentences about yourself, your interests and attach any nice photographs of yourself.
Use our website's advanced search to find members who meet your criteria. Or just leaf through listings and find members that you find interesting.
Discovered someone who appeals to you? Send a note to them or just a wink and let it develop from there. With a little luck you'll be on your way to discovering your soulmate.
It doesn't take long